Am I the 'leader' or 'follower' in love?

Love Power Balance Test

Analyzing your love style...

Discover your love power index with 12 questions. Leading style vs Following style in relationships

Love Power Balance Test - Am I the 'leader' or 'follower' in love? | MaumDive

"I want to eat OOO, how about you?" I clearly suggest what I want first.

"What do you want to eat?" I ask for their opinion first and accommodate.

"How about pasta? Or Korean food is fine too." I give a couple options and negotiate.

'They must be busy. They'll text when done.' (I do my own thing)

'Is something wrong? Did I send something bad?' (Keep checking phone)

'They seem busy. I'll text again around evening.'

If I'm sure I'm right, I explain and persuade until they understand.

I hate the awkward atmosphere, so I say "sorry" even if it's not my fault.

I calm down first, then say "I understand your position, but here's what I think."

My schedule (prior plans, rest) comes first. I expect them to adjust.

If they say "Let's meet this day," I adjust my schedule as much as possible.

We share our schedules and find a day that works for both.

"I understand why you're hurt. But that's a misunderstanding." (Explain first)

"Sorry, it's all my fault. Please forgive me." (Apologize regardless of reason)

"I see you felt that way, sorry. Can you hear my side too?" (Empathize then explain)

If I'm not sure about the relationship, I'm usually the one to end it.

I'm the type who fears being broken up with.

Even if I think we might break up, I try to work it out through conversation.

Me > Partner (Love is just a part of my life, I'm most important)

Me < Partner (My life revolves around my partner)

Me ≈ Partner (Both are important, I try to balance)

"Who? Where? When does it end?" I control the situation or say "Don't meet them."

"Ah... okay..." (Boiling inside but pretending to be cool)

"Honestly it bothers me. But I trust you. Text me during." (Express honestly)

I'm the one who hears "I love you". (Expressing is embarrassing)

I'm the one who says "I love you". (Expressing makes me happy)

I express as much as I receive, and receive as much as I express.

"I wish you'd fix that." I point it out directly and ask for change.

'They have that side...' (I can't speak up, just feel disappointed and give up)

"I feel a bit hard when you do this." I carefully start a conversation using 'I' statements.

I don't share if I don't feel like it. (It's my private life)

If they want, always OK! Actually I want to share even more.

When the relationship is stable, I naturally let people know.

'It'll hurt but... I can meet someone better.' (I move on relatively quickly)

'What would I do without them?' (It feels like my world is ending)

'It'll be painful, but my life must go on.' (I grieve fully then rise)

✨ 3 Actions to Make You Shine More

You are the 'Perfect Dominator' type who sets the rules of love. Your standards are high and you want your partner to meet them. This charisma is attractive early in relationships, but tires your partner over time.

You are the 'Leading Leader' type who guides the relationship. Deep down, you think "If they love me, they should accommodate this much." Your confidence and decisiveness are attractive to your partner, but can sometimes seem 'authoritarian.'

(The Most Ideal Type) You are the 'Ideal Partner' who delicately balances between 'leader' and 'follower.' You have clear opinions but know how to respect your partner's views. You instinctively know that love is about 'together,' not 'alone.'

You are the 'Caring Companion' type who values peace in relationships. You have a 'follower' tendency but choose to 'accommodate' for a stable relationship rather than just enduring. You are an excellent supporter with a talent for making others feel comfortable.

You are the 'Absolute Devotee' who gives everything for love. You find happiness in pleasing your partner and willingly lower yourself to avoid conflict. Your love can be summarized by the words 'sacrifice' and 'consideration'.